There's this guy on tinder who keeps trying to meet with me. It's been 3 months and he still trying. I only go on there when I'm bored, just to skim through photos and check guys out. Why is he still trying? I mean he a decent looking guy, but meeting a stranger scares me! I stop talking to him so he'll stop thinking it's going to happen but he still message me.
He deserves a chance for trying so long.
I thought guys just stop contacting if the girl don't want to meetup because she probably ugly in person then. But why does he keep trying?
What if I'm a guy?
Most Helpful Guy
If he still hasn't gotten the hint then unmatch him or block him. He's obviously desperate. No he doesn't deserve a chance for trying that long, it just becomes creepy. And if you're scared of meeting strangers, don't go on Tinder or at least don't swipe right and talk to them... Why would you do that? That's just asking for them to be lead on. You can check guys out anywhere.1
Most Helpful Girl
he's desperate. dont delude yourself into thinking that this guy is putting a whole lot of effort by talking to you on tinder. it probably takes 10 seconds to type a few words so i wouldn't necessarily say he DESERVES a chance. he probably is on there daily trying to see what fish will bite. if you dont wanna meet up then ignore him1