Ladies, I'd like to ask all of you a question. Why do you friendzone the guys that are nice to you?
this has happened to me more than I care to count and alway the same way.
I meet girl, we talk and hit it off. we go on a date or two and things go well, then suddenly I'm just a friend. I'm mainly curious as to what the logic is behind it
Most Helpful Girl
well a number of reasons, could be that some think you're too good to be true , or one might be afraid she'll get hurt again or she might be cautious or just simply shut down. some of us build an emotional wall where we allow just a few into our hearts. there could be so many reasons behind that, but don't give up , you will eventually meet the girl who will want a serious relationship with you.1
Most Helpful Guy
The logic is that a good guy freind that you really enjoy hanging around is way more valuable than a boyfriend that might not last to long.
They like you a lot as a freind but you just don't fit their preferences for a boyfriend.
Your not relationship material but your great freind material.
I have gone for a several girls that I liked however they just freind zoned me. Often saying and complimenting me that I'm a great guy. Any girl would be lucky to have me. BUT they don't want me romantically so they will keep me as a valuable good male friend. I'm a great catch, I'm just not their great catch.
With guys we usually look at a woman and go na, hot just not my type. Though with some women. They have a nasty personality. With women they often go he is cute. Lets see if his personality fits with mine. Nope well into the freindzone. Guys make up thier minds faster with a female freind we usually know pretty quickly if she is a freind or date material. Women often take longer to decide.
Just keep being a good guy cause dating is a numbers game. You just need to keep searching till you find the woman that fits right with you.0