My boyfriend is in the USMC and we are currently in a long distance relationship. Am I a bad girlfriend if I:
- Don't text him often or ask how his day went. I never initiated calling or Skype.
- Rarely initiate texting. If he doesn't reply, I leave it at that.
- Don't really care about his career or rank. I don't really care if he gets promoted or not. I also never post USMC girlfriend stuff on my wall or share anything like that.
- Recently, he is going on a second deployment and he said he may not come back until after that time. I replied "Good luck and take care."
Am I a bad GF? Do I sound mean when I said that?
- Yes.Vote A
- Not really.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Having been in the Matine Corps I can say that you're a terrible girlfriend.
People don't realize the agony of what we have to go through. Literally surrounded by other men 24/7 so your mind is constantly on her thinking about the next time you finally get to see her again. When you're in a relationship with a chick while in the military it can feel like she is the only person that maintains your distinction to reality. Sort of lets you know that there is a life outside of what you are going through.
I have no idea why you with him or why he is with you. His convoy could hit an IED and he could be killed. You tel him good luck and take care? Wtf? Lmao4
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