So for context- I'm 23 years old, in my last year of college and yeah... never had a boyfriend. I'm not fat, and been told I'm okay looking- like a 6.5/10 by many sources. I did try to socialize throughout college and join clubs/make friends, but I've always struggled in this area. I can have really great conversations with people and try to act friendly as stuff, but I can't seem to push the relationship further and hang out with them outside of school and stuff.
I also hope my standards aren't too ridiculous. To note- I'm South Asian American, so I understand that only a few types of men would be attracted to me. However, I only seem to attract foreign men from overseas who I don't relay have much interest in due to the huge culture gap. Otherwise, rarely do men really show interest in me, including other South Asian guys around me.
I simply don't want to end up alone the rest of my life nor resort to an arranged marriage. I want a guy around my age- give or take- who I get along with really well and has similar political views with. I also want him to be hygienic and not obese lol. I've tried online dating, but got extremely frustrated by all the creepy guys and 50+ year olds messaging me that I gave up all together.
So yes, sorry about this rant, but any sort of advice from either gender would be really helpful! :)
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I would say just start to be more open and friendly and make an effort to just have conversations. Because the key to a relationship is the communication.1