First time he broke up with me due to me confronting him about something. He comes back and I forgive him. Second time I confront him about another issue (both involved other girls) and he says I'm very comforting and I have a good personality/ that I'm pretty but doesn't feel the spark. I kept pushing it on why and he said he didn't want me anymore.
I was devastated. Didn't look at anything of his for a while. A few weeks later I wanted to see what he was up to. He was posing with another girl and he was at this place that we were supposed to go to as a date when we got back together but he never took me. He was also liking this other girls instagram pictures which was weird because I had a weird feeling how he never liked my social media things and when I asked why he said he doesn't like pictures. All the things he never did with me and I had a concern, he did brightly with new girls. I feel like shit because I treated him so nice and helped him/supported him with so many things. He was going through a lot and I tried to be there for him emotionally... I even wiped his tears away when he cried one time. He said he loved me... but who treats someone they love like that? It still hurts to this day that I was treated like dirt but treated him so nicely... what did I do wrong? Was I wrong for pushing the subject on why he didn't feel a spark?
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Most Helpful Guy
Sorry, after the SECOND confrontation, i started to side with HIM.
You sound naggy as hell. dont you understand that guys just wanna be guys?
I find it interesting that you said "confronted him about something"... then said "confronted him about another issue"... but.. BUT... you NEVER told us what the confrontation was about... making me think that you were probably being Petty and you KNOW IT.
You dont gotta confront all the time boo boo... sometimes, make it a discussion, sometimes, bring it up as an off hand comment... you on the other hand sound like the "we gotta talk" kinda girl and EVERY guy knows what that means and we dont want to. Period.
Im not surprised about his leaving... you gotta change your style of communication.0
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Most Helpful Girl
You did nothing wrong. He used you as a shoulder to cry on, but wasn't emotionally invested in you. He came back cause there was nobody to go to the first time, the second time is because he seeing other girls and has options now. He didn't use you physically, he used you emotionally.. now that he's fine he doesn't want anything to do with you. People like this are horrible, you don't want a user in your life cause I'm sure sooner or later one girls he's seeing is going to be in the same position. He did you a favor by breaking up with you, I know it hurts but it's better this way. Date a man who wants you, not some one who uses you.0