I feel so stupid and used for even hooking up with this guy. After our first date he texted me right way, but after another great date, silence. How long should I wait before moving on? Is he waiting for me to text him?
Most Helpful Guy
he stopped after the second date but you two hooked up on the first? the fact that he had a second date with you means he was still interested.
if it's been a few days since your date (or last text whichever is most recent) then you can text him. something simple that he can easily answer or reply to. so no vague questions like "what's up?"
if he relies cool, if not you need to make sure a guy wants a relationship next time. it's not how many dates so much as substance of his character that you can learn and decide by.
is he willing to meet your friends? do they like him? ask about his job career aspirations... is he consistent with those? do you like his friends? do they seem like people who keep their word? there are different things like this that will help you know the type of guy he is without needing to have a sort of number of dates system. 👍0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Because he has no intentions in being with you again. It was only one night... maybe that's all he wanted.
How long have you guys been dating?
You are young, you will meet guys who are fuck boys before you have a keeper!
Next time just wait longer before you have sex.
You should move on right now, because you should not even try to talk to him because he should do that if he has feelings for you!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE