I have had a crush on a guy since two weeks ago and told him a few days ago. He said he also likes me. From now, I am planning to go slow with this because I want to get to know him better and not scare him off. (Technically, we aren't dating and he is also shy XD)
What about you? How do things go for you? Why did you choose to go like that? :)
- Fasterrr than the speed of lightVote A
- Pretty fast, but still kinda normal paced.Vote B
- Normal, I guessVote C
- Slower than normal, but still okVote D
- Slowwww like a snail (me too XD)Vote E
- It's complicated, and I'll tell you why.Vote F
Most Helpful Guy
Come on step it up!
Most Helpful Girl
it's complicated & i'll tell you why:
i'm kinda picky about who i want to be with. i want to be with someone that i admire and someone that is my friend before we ever start dating... so i want to be with a guy who will actually take the time to build a relationship with me, get to know eachother first, be friends first vs. go fast and push sexual advances to quickly. guys who go to quickly/rush things are an immediate turn off for me. i'm also in a weird stage in my life where college is my life (consumes most of my time) and i'm not necessarily a REAL adult yet... so i still have to grow up a bit.
but yeah, i like it when a guy takes things slow. ideally i'll have known the guy for a year - 2 years before he even makes a move & we are genuine friends first.0