My boyfriend seems to have goals and desires in life, but he seems to put things off. If you procrastinate, what helps you? How do you help others? I want to be supportive and kind, but I don't want to come off as his teacher giving him deadlines.
Most Helpful Guy
Goals and desires without action are just dreams, nothing more. Dreams are only realised when you get up off your ass. The problem with too much procrastination is that the years can pass you by quickly and your window of opportunity closes.
Maybe he is a dreamer rather than a doer. Words are just words, they don't signify intent. Actions signify intent. I wouldn't push him too hard, it is for him to decide if he wants to be something or just think about being something.0
Most Helpful Girl
Meh, just wait. I'm sure the problem will resolve itself. I'll get back you later with better advice.1