I am just gonna blurt everything oot, cause I am really confused about my situation.
I met a guy...
I have met many ni ei guys, but there is always something in the way! Always! (once a guy started having drug problems, once it was my friends ex and once he met another girl at the sama time... and so on)
So now I met this guy. He is everything I have ever dreamed of, I am head over heals into him... But we are only just getting to know each other... And today he revieled that he is gonna go to the other side of the planet earth for god knows how long to risk his life 😳 I am devastated... Almost crying over a guy I just got to know. He asked me if I wanna continue seeing him still... And without hesitation I said yes. Now I have been all moody and worried about this... What is gonna happen? I have a few guesses...
1. I am gonna get blinded and fall in love, and then it is gonna crush my life when he leaves in about one month.
2. I am gonna have the time of my life and then get over him...(never...)
3. I am gonna leave this situation and him
All these three options could be possible, but the 2. Is a little questionable, because I am already very very into him. What do you this about this situation? Is it worth the risk? He wants to continue and see, but I just started to get worried about this. I can't see myself breaking up with him just because he goes away, but would it be possible to continue a relationship? I know there is no point in thinking this far because we literally just started seeing. But I have started to protect myself from all this love-bullshit... You know?
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Most Helpful Guy
I recently finished my military service, and my role there was extremely life threatening + I had a classification level of "top secret", so I couldn't tell my girlfriend what, when and where I was.
I could only talk to her normally about things as long as it wasn't about me in the army.
And damn, we were for 2 years together before I was recruited, BUT literally soon after, everything went to shit.
Just because of how busy and how much distance we had between us, she lost it really fast.
But that is just my case, I would say that it really depends on you, if this guy is going to be away for a long time, don't even bother.
It's very hard and you barely know him, you don't know what he is going to there, maybe seeing other girls and all, you don't know if he is really loyal or not.
You are feeling as if he is perfect because that's the point, you don't know him, you don't know what are his biggest drawbacks, and once you will discover them, you won't feel the same way as you are feeling now.
It will be easier if you leave him and keep trying to date other guys which you find suitable.1
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Most Helpful Girl
You have only one opportunity to know a good person in life. It does not matter if there is a bad situation ahead. You should be with a person that you feel is right for you, even if it is only for a short time.1