Hi! My name is Eva and I'm a sixteen year old from Holland. And lately i've been wondering:
I'm 16 and I have never been on a real date and I have never kissed some one or had a boyfriend. And lately that has been bothering me. Am I doing something wrong? I'm pretty happy with how I look and I'm not that shy. I just want to wait for the right person you know? But is that old-fashioned? Is it wrong? I just don't know anymore... Thanks so much for even reading this :)
Most Helpful Guy
At what age do girls start dating in Holland? In the US, I think the average is 15-16, so it's not as if life has passed you by.
When guys look at you, do they have the impression that you would be receptive to their interest or is it possible they might feel intimidated? You didn't post a picture but if you are very attractive, I know that some pretty girls don't get approached because guys think you already have 4 boyfriends!
If you want to find someone to become special in your life, you should consider getting involved in group activities that include buy guys and girls. Often, people at your age need to overcome shyness and group activities are a great setting to do that. . . and a great setting to meet members of the opposite sex without feeling any pressure. Are there any youth group activities available to you through school, church, or interest groups?0
Most Helpful Girl
You are fine. I got my first kiss when I was around 18. You have time, I promise.0