I have been single for two years now and I've just about had it. The last guy I was seeing never talked to me agai after we had sex for the first time. The guys before that ended up loosing interest in me over time - I became a hookup to them. I still find myself missing my first love even though I know I can't go back to him.
At this point I feel like I'm never going to find love again. I keep on telling myself to stop looking for love, but I can't. I always get way too excited with every new guy.
How can I get past this? How can I be content with being single? I have been traveling Europe for the past 6 months but the guys here are just as much of jerks as back home in the USA. Is dating just hopeless these days?
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I'm going to say this because I've learned from my past mistakes. Don't sleep with them until after you're more serious. Until you're actually dating them. And even when you wanna sleep with them, don't. If he really likes you, he will wait for sex. If you really want an actual relationship, just get to know them and take things slow. This probably sounds really cliche but trust me on it, there's lots of guys who only want sex but also some that want something real. Don't lose hope yet!3