Most Helpful Guy
Women are blaming the men but forget that it's often women who are slut-shaming just as much, if not even more, than men do. Women are highly jealous of one another, to the point that if one girl attracts more men than she is able to, she'll start rumors and begin gossiping to everybody. I can't even count how many times I heard a small group of girls talking crap about another girl at a party, it's very sad.
I think the trick is to just not have any girlfriends and to not let them see you slipping away with any boys.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You can't control how other people perceive your behaviour, you can only be aware of how it may be perceived by others and if you don't want to risk being judged in a negative way then don't behave that way, otherwise just own your actions. No one can make you feel bad if you don't allow them to. If you want to have casual sexual relationships then own that choice and say "Yeah, that's what I'm comfortable with right now and I enjoy myself, if you have a problem with that it's about you, not me." And that's true. People who judge your behaviour are the people who feel insecure about their own behaviour and choices.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE