- MalesVote A
- FemalesVote B
- Split itVote C
- Or just get two separate checks from the get goVote D
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The person who did the asking should pay for the check.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
The person who did the asking should pay for the check.
Whoever invited the other person. But it'd be common courtesy, to at least ask to split/pay for your own. If it's a relationship, then whoever reaches their wallet first. :3
Men. Because he's supposed to be a gentleman and doesn't deserve another date if he lets her pay half. That goes for any date, not just first dates. That's my personal opinion though.
I'll pay. The minuet you complain about where I take you or how much I pay, I drop you. Then you can go where you want and pay what you want to pay by yourself.
Split, unless you're planning on giving me a bj later, then out of courtesy, I'll pay for the date :)
The guy should always pay since that's the social norm.
I always pay since I don't want to ruin my chances with her.
Honestly the social norm is guys always pay because a girl would rarely ever ask a guy out so he stuck either way. But she better damn well know how to cook.
I think it all depends on the situation, but I am a little old school and always offer to pay first
Males, unless there is a really bad connection, in which case split it
if it is a date a man is supposed to pay for it but if there is no romantic connection then she could pay for her own meal
I normally invite in the first, and let the girl invite in the second :P
The person who invited the other out
Men should pay for dates/hangouts.
The one who eats it.
The one who asked for the date.
I've always paid for my dates so I vote men.
Females should pay since it's a nice gesture, it shows she cares about the man and is a lady.
This question has all the wrong poll options. First, it doesn't include "the asker pays regardless of gender and girls should ask out guys on first dates as well", second it doesn't include "The one who has more money". Third, it's a generational and regional thing as well. People over 35 and those from very conservative areas might have been raised with gender roles, but this poll puts them all in one bucket.
IMHO there are plenty of ways to determine who should pay but using one's sex as a determining factor is the very definition of sexism.
None of these. Whoever asks out should pay. THEY are the ones who made the invitation, so THEY should be ready to pay for all. HOWEVER, the person invited should be willing to at least pay their share, but that person who invited is ultimately responsible for payment.
"but but women dont ask men out," yes we do. We just dont go for any and every guy like guys do with girls. Stop asking women out if you have such a hard time paying.
I was raised to believe that a split is the best. If the guy insists on paying the whole bill, I will feel flattered and let him. However, next time I will insist on paying the whole bill as well since he did last time.
Who ever asked who out first. I
Always the guy, no doubt about it.
Whoever asks and picks the venue. I have always asked so I always fight to pay and usually don't see them again if they fight me too hard on it. Splitting the bill makes it a friend hangout which is fine.. but I don't count it as a date afterwards.
Basically whoever instigated the date
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