Well I don't know if this happened for a reason, its kinda dumb but sh*t like this happens. I've been meaning to message this guy back about when we're gonna see each other. Now, I say "message back" because the last time we talked, we were trying to see when we would be available to schedule a time and he seemed really enthusiastic about it but I was kinda busy at the moment so I kept saying I can't do that time and I guess he just gave up and left it all up to me about letting him know when we can meet up. I feel like he's been waiting for me to let him know but who knows if thats the case. So I was going to message him some time soon but I decided to look up on social media and came across this girl that I always felt like he had a thing for. She recently posted a photo of herself and I wanted to see if he liked it and he did. He also liked her other photos and this is all recently so that was really discouraging and now I don't feel like messaging him back. I feel like Ill look like a loser messaging him if he's back to being interested in her. So I don't know if that happened for a reason because I have been contemplating on messaging him back since he didn't treat me exactly that great in the past but I thought after our last talk, we made it clear were on the same page of wanting to see each other so it made me feel more hopeful. But now that I know of this social media girl thing, i lost some desire to message him. Am I just creating more stress for myself and should just message him? or was that a sign that maybe I shouldn't and possibly wait for him? the thing is, if I wait for him, I feel like ill be waiting forever since last time we talked, he made most of the effort so now its my turn to make the effort.
Should I message him after finding this out?
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