I want to stop seeing her as a crush, just as a friend, but don't know how. I've thinked about talking to her and telling her that I need some space for myself (no chats, not seeing her, etc), and explaining to her why (telling her I have a crush on her).
Should I do this? Or is it too selfish from me? I haven't had the guts to do it because I appreciate the friendship very much, and am scared of loosing what we have. Also, she has had a very very tough past year, divorced parents amongst other things, so I feel like crap telling her I want to move away from her life (knowing that she appreciates the friendship and me as a support)
Any advice would be very, very welcome. It's really painful.