There's this guy at my work, we're sharing an office together. I've been working there for about seven months and in December I realized that I'm in love with him. His completely not my type, but I've fallen for him. I don't think I've ever been hit this hard before. Until two months ago he dated another colleague, but their relationship ended. I thought I had a shot now... but then there's this other girl in our department. She always flirts with him and he compliments her, etc. Today I finally asked him and he confirmed to me that he was dating her. I almost broke down in front him. I was (am) really really upset and heartbroken and he asked me what was wrong but I couldn't tell him.
Do you guys think I should still tell him how I feel about him? I'm terrified of going back to the office... seeing them together, having to pretend that I'm fine. I'm not even sure how to act around him now. Should I show him that I'm hurt and upset or pretend that I'm fine?
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry, you missed your chance. Do not say anything. Don't be a boyfriend stealer. Do not try to wedge yourself between them. Respect their relationship and move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
it would be good for you to get it off your chest so telling him might be better, but having that said remember it doesn't mean he will leave this girl for you so prepare yourself as it could go either way, i think being honest is best because then you won't get more hurt in the end , if you start liking him more and more by being quiet about this you will feel worse, dont tell him straight that you like him, test the water first meaning you should tell him you think he is cute or ask him to hang out make a move to see how it goes firstly:)1