Both of us are pretty shy, but I know he's into me. I just have no idea how to let him know I want him to kiss me and go trough with it. We mostly lie in bed, talk and watch movies. So I can't figure out how to go for the kiss, when cuddling
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compliment his face and then put your face very close to his (as if examining his face or the feature you complimented) when you're at kissing distance ask him if he likes yours. don't withdraw. stay close and the tension will build if you don't think that he'll task initiative and just kiss you at this point then as soon as he starts telling (to answer your question) just go in for the kiss.
1. if he initiates it, you do a big deep kiss.
2. if you initiate, do a quick "innocent" kiss. but don't withdraw way back away from his face. after the quick kiss return to being within kissing distance and continue your convo. "now what we're you saying?"
if shy he may be blushing and flustered. if he asks what was that for you could j make a joke that his compliment swept you off your feet. (you both will know this is a joke. esp if he didn't get to finish). just keep talking from that point but keep your face close until the next kiss comes.
now he may go back (though flustered) to answering your question by complimenting your face. if he does this, you say "mhm"..." mmm" and inch closer as if his compliment actually is sweeping you off your feet and then you can have a second, deep kiss.
that will work nearly every time. by keeping your face close it builds a positive tension that can only be alleviated by a kiss.
so you can do that or take less likely, more indirect approach and watch the little mermaid next time you cuddle haha be sure to express your shock at the prince not getting the hint during the "kiss the girl" song! lol and put your faces close ;)0
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My Husband used to be my bestfriend like not that childish omgeee friends since we were kids but that's my boy I introduce him to girls he talks to me about guys so there was no room for transition we were shopping waiting for our other friend to change and I said "I want to kiss you" and he was like "What?" And I'm like "I want to kiss you can I kiss you?" And he said sure but was so damn stuck he didn't kiss me first so I stood up grabbed his face and kissed him point is just ask or do it0