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Because that's what's important when you get to know a guy: if he'll buy you shit.
... Really? Maybe he just sees you as an equal.
No it doesn't mean that at all, why do women need to make problems where there aren't any? Who cares if you pay your own share? Why is that such a problem? You're over 18, stop with the kid shit and buy your own food.
I'm in it for 50/50. That way I can't be used for as a wallet. I do treat from time to time but I learned not to give anymore than I am willing to lose. There are women out there who will only see a man who they can get something from rather than sharing their time/life with the person. The ones that actually WANT to be with the guy are the ones I personally look for. Of course this is also about getting to know if your a good match in the first place.
What difference does it make? This is why dating is dying, all the perceived gold diggers and free-food hunters. It feels like only the size of our cock and wallets matter. If you really like him it doesn't matter how much of a tightwad he is unless you just want him for his money. Get a job and buy your own crap or do what many do and advertise on Backpage/W>M.
No. Usually , when these type of guys give you anything , it will be a big thing. Only if he is a very poor guy , then , he can show his richness by offering his wholesome love to you. And getting such love is a very precious thing to have.
Sorry but the guy should always pay for your share.
if you are paying for yourself then the answer is no.
if you are paying for him also then the answer is yes.
the same thing applies for girls also so guys should remember this.
He could be a penny pincher for sure. Myself i like to pay for dates when taking a girl out i don't want be a cheap skate.
It means you should find another guy.
He is using you
I hope not, I don't know your guy personally
No. Just not yet.
Why does it matter if he buys you stuff? That's the mindset of someone who wants to be spoiled.
Maybe he just doesn't have enough money at the time. But should you be more conceaned with spending time with him and getting to know him instead of getting stuff?
Dating doesn't mean he pays for everything. Maybe you should surprise him and take the initiative and just asked for one check and you pay for everything. Take the lead and maybe he'll return the favor. When it comes to relationships no matter which part you're packing you have to be in it together relationships are 100/100 not 50/50. he may just be reserving himself right now and seeing what he really thinks of the relationship and where it may or may not go. If I was in your shoes
Why is it important that he buys you things if you truly like him?
I don't date and I just can't stand the mindset of people who date anymore...
Why date him anymore? If he doesn't pay in any of your date. You can share at times or take turn but not spending any penny? Well that is a red flag for me.
I understand you completely because this is how my parents showed me affection growing up. The only way really lol!
But just know, that it's not really the normal way of showing affection. You should be more open to the other ways he shows he cares about you.
People that aren't obsessed with money (like my parents) have better ways of showing they care.
At the same time, be aware that he's not taking advantage of you either, of course. I had a guy that told me he hated taking girls out on nice dates and loved that I enjoyed hanging out at the park, he told me he would never buy a girl flowers because they were killing them to produce them (-.-), and generally seemed to hate being in a relationship.
I don't think the fact he didn't pay for anything was a problem... but the fact he kept talking about it like he didn't enjoy doing nice things for his girlfriend did bother me. lol! But... it's not something you break up over if you like him. Just tell him how you feel.
Oh my god who the hell cares
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