I've pursued women for a good portion of my life. I have done every single way of going about it that you can possibly do. I have been rejected more times than I care to admit. Recently I have stopped because all I ever get is negative responses. Why can't women give guys a chance? I'm not rude, mean, nasty or childish towards anyone. I try to clean myself up as best that I can and be presentable. When am I going to have a girlfriend? Pretty soon I'm going to be a bitter old man.
Most Helpful Girl
Just from this post I can tell that you aren't confident in yourself, which is huge! You should try and engage yourself in your life outside of dating. Focus on being happy and confident as a single man. Dig in to your hobbies and interests, and don't place so much self worth on whether or not you are dating somebody. Women can really sense if you are confident in yourself, and it's honestly really unattractive if you aren't. They might not be "giving you a chance" because they can tell that you feel your self worth is tied to their approval or rejection of you, which is too much pressure and honestly a huge turn off. It's also not enough to just not be rude, mean, or nasty. It's kind of understood that a decent person wouldn't be those things. People like other people who have a lot of interests and know how to be independent. If you focus on being the best you you can be and the things you like to do, you'll eventually find somebody who wants to do those things with you!3
Most Helpful Guy
Why do you need a girl to feel better about yourself? Girls tend not to be attracted to defeatists, by the way.4