I'm over online dating, I feel like people just have too many options just by a single click. And there is other reasons as well.. where do people meet a potentional partner these days? When online dating is used so much. Of course there's bars as well but majority are just looking for one thing.
Most Helpful Guy
My path to wife after arriving in new city:
More Friends->Even More Friends
Even More Friends->Now Wife
I picked up some women in bars and clubs as well, but none of them were long-term material. It was the friends I made in those places who gave me a social path to meeting lots of decent girlfriend candidates.0
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Okay so, I have been online dating for many years, and yes i met ONE DOUCHE-BAG after another, and trust me i did not use online dating webs to look for a boyfriend but JUST because i was in university and i was alone and bored, and i met very very hot guys in there, but i can guarantee 90% of them where players.
One day i was talking to this guy who was so weird at the beginning, but we became friends, i was like YAYYY FINALLY AFTER 4 YEARS OF ONLINE DATING somebody wants to be my friend, so we became friends we went out a few times.. and guess what...
today we are in a relationship ever since, 3 years have past and we are happy, and get happier each day.
My point is, ONLINE DATING is like a Russian roulette, and i did it because i found it difficult to meet people outside, and i was convinced that you can't meet serious people in a CLUB either, so douchebags are everywhere, behind the screen or in a library... its the same...