My boyfriend has about 4 main girl best mates and he says he doesn't like them like that etc etc and he messaged them fairly regularly but they all have boyfriends. However when I try and make a guy friend they don't want to be the moment they know I have a boyfriend or they get funny with me if I say I'm not interested? It's really annoying and means I don't have one single male friend. I guess what I don't understand is if all these guys won't have me as a girl mate how come my boyfriend doesn't mind being mates with girls? Is it because he's with me or just a nicer guy?
Most Helpful Guy
He could be very sociable and that's how he ended up having these girls as friends but on your end most guys don't want to be a friend of a girl since most want to be dating you1
Most Helpful Girl
Most men would rather not be friends with an attractive girl because they easily get distracted by her appearance. You should either find a guy who a) doesn't consider you aesthetically appealing, b) is gay and/or c) is in a relationship.