It is hard to find a young woman these days that has never had at least one boyfriend (if not many).
I will be turning 23 later this year and I have never had a girlfriend. I have never had my first love. It seems everyone around me, including friends, family members, and others have had at least one bf/gf by now.
There is only one person I know who is my age and never had a girlfriend and he is WAY more eccentric and shy than I am.
And the thing is... I am a fairly outgoing guy. I am not ugly, yet I wouldn't say I am "hot" either. I am short, coming in at 5 feet 7 inches in height.
BUT HERE IS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR...
I am wanting a girl who has never had a romantic bonds with a guy before.
This is an attractive girl who has
1. Never had a boyfriend
2. Never had a male best friend whom she had a crush on and he liked her back (they had feelings for each other and didn't make it official).
She can be young as 18, as long as she is legal.
- You have very good chancesVote A
- You have decent chancesVote B
- A girl like that will be rare to findVote C
- Almost impossible to find a girl like thatVote D
- See pollVote E
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You have very specific criteria and that reduces your chances. If I wanted a green car I could find millions of them. If I wanted a green car with three wheels it would be a lot harder to find. If I wanted a green car with three wheels and pink seats and an imported engine it would be even harder still. It's just basic logic. The more specific you are about what you want, the smaller the pool of potential suitors becomes.
You want a girl who is both attractive and utterly inexperienced. That will be hard to find in any girl who is above 12yrs old. Most girls will have had some level of interest in a guy, if not had a boyfriend. Most girls will have had a close male friend.
The question is, why do you feel that you can only be with such a girl? What are you so insecure about?0