I realized I've still never had a girlfriend, and so I stopped being a wuss and started asking them out. Well so far it's been a disaster.
I started approaching random women, I thought women like balls right? I walked up to a random woman who looked nice and asked her if she wanted to grab coffee sometime. That's not weird right? Well she looked visibly flustered, and then basically made fun of me saying "Did you really just ask me out without knowing me? You can't do that".
I've had a couple responses like that. I ask women out and a lot of times they make it awkward, rather than just accepting my invitation to go out, or saying "no" they always say things like "Well why do you want to date me?", "I dont really know you", "I'm busy so maybe another time" etc.
If they don't know me isn't a date a way to solve that problem?
Wtf is their problem?
Most Helpful Girl
If you ask straight out the bat, they will get freaked out. You have to casually begin a conversation, introduce yourself, then mention you should have a cup of coffee sometime again because she is an interesting person, hand her your number. Done!1
Most Helpful Guy
That's why I'm still single, at least you're trying and yet they wonder why we won't normally approach1