if your partner was questioning your love to them, what would you do to pressure them that you really do?
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Sometimes it's just insecurities so I wouldn't take it that personally. It's possible that you just require different things to feel loved. For example, I need to HEAR why he loves me, that I'm appreciated and if he's proud of me. It's not enough to just spend time together. If you can I'd get her to take the "5 love languages" test online because it will tell you what she needs and can be a huge eye opener. It will basically just tell you what you can do to make her feel loved.
There are different ways of showing you love someone:
Words of Affirmation - Explaining why exactly you love someone, compliments
Quality Time - Spending time together as a couple
Physical Touch - Holding hands, hugs
Acts of Service - Doing things around the house to make things easier for her
Gift Giving - Thoughtful surprise gifts
All relationships need a bit of all 5 but some people may really need physical touch to feel loved, others may prefer gift giving and I think most need words of affirmation and quality time. Also, talk to her and encourage her to open up about why she feels this way.0