And does your SO know about it, if you have one?
how do they feel about it?
Do you think it's wrong or weird at all?
Most Helpful Guy
I do have many , although my wife and I do this together at once. We're very transparent with each other and have nothing to hide.1
Most Helpful Girl
A few. I talk to them on Facebook everyday or every few days. I only recently moved back to my hometown so I kinda got back in contact with a few of my old friends (mostly the girls though lol).
1. My gay friend who I've been friends with since primary school.
2. Another gay friend who I used to live with at uni.
3. My friend who used to live on the same street as me as a kid. Contacted him for a catch up and to see how his twin sister is doing these days, since she doesn't have Facebook.
4. My ex from about 4 years ago. This one's a bit weird and I don't talk to him much. He contacted me to basically warn me that this person, who once harassed us both, had shown up again. He showed the proof too so it wasn't just an excuse or anything. We had a bit of a catch up since there were no hard feelings.
My boyfriend knows about every single one and doesn't mind at all. Probably because I'm complaining about how boring they can be to talk to XD I don't think it's wrong or weird. But I would never let it go too far. With the 3rd guy, he's had feelings for me before a loooongggg time ago (10 years or so). If I found out he did again I'd just not talk to him anymore.
My boyfriend talks to his ex as well every so often. But they've been broken up 8 years or so and haven't met up since or anything. It does worry me a bit sometimes but I'd rather deal with that than be one of those girls "oh you're not allowed to talk to her". Since his other ex did that all the time and thought he always had feelings for her. I was his friend back then and used to talk to him about it. He says he didn't like her at all and she was in a relationship anyway.0