I like this guy, but I also know he likes me. He brought me my fav candy, got me a stuffed animal, and took me out on dates multiple times. I met him through one of my other guy friends, and he and I are relatively close. I wanted to see if he truly liked me and asked my guy friend to pull a prank. I told the guy I like; I was dating our mutual friend. He seemed confused, then asked me more, and I kept going along with the story. He seems to be getting upset and just says he's going to bed, but my guy friend messages him saying we aren't dating (his part of the prank). Eventually, my guy friend admits it was a joke, and so do I, and he says fuck you to both of us, and was like "I can't believe you pranked me, LMAO, fuck you" then said, "Now I can trust either of you anymore." He still seems upset and not really wanting to talk to me, and he also doesn't seem to trust anything I say. I mean, did it hurt him or what?
Most Helpful Guy
Are you that self-centered that you need this guy to prove his love to you? He spent time and money on you; isn't that enough? You have to emotionally abuse him in order to see how he feels about you. He has the right to be mad, and I hope he walks away from your relationship. I know I would.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, it did. You played with his emotions. He liked you and you played an awful trick that broke his trust for you. Its going to be hard to make it up to him and honesty leads to trust, and since you lied you broke that trust. Trust is hard to make up and takes a long time to form again. He probably will never trust you again and if he dates you, he probably will be insecure with being with you. You probably still have a chance, but its now minimal.
Think of it like this, the person your madly in love with loves you, but they later tell you that they are dating your bestfriend nonchalantly. You will feel heartbroken as you feel lied to and that you feel played, and later was told that it was all a joke. Your guy may now feel like that you don't care about him and that all the time you both had together was just a joke and that you planned this from the beginning. I'd wait to talk to him again and when you feel like that its possible to talk to him, apologize, but I can't guarantee that he will want to talk to you. In this situation, you should've thought about how he'd feel before you do it as your playing with someone's feelings. I hope he forgives you and that your able to get back into his graces.1