I realized I always get myself in a pickle and uncomfortable situations when a guy ask for my number I give it to him then they get all flirty and stuff asking to hang out a lot etc etc and hinting they want to be with me when in all actuality I don't want them at all or find them attractive. One thing about me is im very friendly and don't no how to say no & reject guys so they think cuz I give them my number that they automatically have a chance when that's simply not the case I don't mean to lead them on honesty but really all I'm doing is just being myself and they take it the wrong way and run w it making me feel a lot uncomfortable. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
You're leading them on and you're doing it on purpose.
If these guys show that they like you and you don't like them, don't give out your number. That shows interest.
For example, a fat girl likes me and flirts with me... if I give her my number it shows interest... even if I tell her "I don't like her".
Actions speak louder...0
Most Helpful Girl
That's normal. I know a lot of girls like that. Most women are so uncomfortable saying no plus they don't want to assume anything and be full of them self if the guy just wants to be friends. Plus it's nice to have guy friends. Plenty of people are just naturally flirty too... it just is how it is... don't feel bad about it but try not to let yourself get sucked into a relationship you really don't want just cause you don't want to say no either...0