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Google "Matt 19:5"
as a husband (not boyfriend but husband) he is SUPPOSED to prioritize you and your children (in that order) about all else. your family together should become his top, number 1 priority. his parents and extended family comes 2nd. that is the proper order.
to be honest it doesn't seem as though he understands this. you'll want to make WELL sure that he does before you consider marriage. if he does not have this simple but important revelation concerning priorities, it will get worse after you're married.
imagine your husband going to his mom to talk about his problems as work before he comes to you. imagine him taking to his mom when he's upset with you before even bringing it up with you to talk... this and more is what will happen if his priorities are not straight. you don't seem like the type of woman who wants a mother in law who play-acts as wife.
of course he still lives his fam dearly after marriage, but those priorities being in order are so very important.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE