I mean you do like her a lot. have lots in common, but the problem is that for certain things she has to depend on you to do some stuff? I mean would y ou accept it because you like her a lot or you blew her off and not continue seeing her? For instance would be a problem for you if the lady you like dont have her own transportation but you do, so each time you want to go out with her, you will have to pick her up or you let her go by herself by taxi or bus to your place because you won't pick her up given theh circumstances you dont live so close to each other, I mean not super far away but maybe like 40 minutes to up to 1 hour (if the traffic is dense) from each other, even if the lady could cooperate and pay you part of the gasoline just in the case he picks you up.
I mean in old times couples when neitehr one had transportation, the guy never mind to go and date the girl and he used the bus to go to her house or if they want to go to th e movies or to eat they meet at particular place and then they were together.
Most Helpful Guy
If your question is, is 40 minutes worth of travel too much to ask of a guy who has his own car, the answer is no. If any guy refuses to drive that far and asks you to take a bus, cab, or uber, dump him. He isn't worth dating.
If I was dating a girl and she was always asking me to buy her or expecting things like designer handbags, expensive jewelry, or things like that I would say that's too much. But things like paying for the meal, picking you up, holding the door, etc. should all be considered minimum requirements.
I know it might seem odd to do, but consider yourself like some valuable recourse. You are gold or diamonds, if whatever this guy is doing isn't selling itself up to what your worth, you should find someone who will.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend always picks me up even though I have transport he just likes to come get me... We live probably 20 mins apart not too far. I mean does she depend on you for everything? Or is that the only thing? If she's willing to pay partly for the gas then I don't see the problem...
Any other examples you can give? When I think about depending on someone in a relationship I always think that she would be expecting you to buy everything...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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