So I've known this girl from a climbing gym I go to for about a year now. When I first met her I thought she was stunning so I struck a conversation with her to find out she was still in high school, so I backed off. We've occasionally climbed together and we have a lot of mutual friends (ones that are my age and older than me.)
Recently though she's been very assertive and has been asking me to hang out. She's graduated high school and is 18 now. Just last week, we went cross country skiing and had an awesome time. She came back to my place for some tea and once we got comfortable, we talked for a while and actually ended up making out. Ever since we've been talking almost every day.
I know some say it's just a number but is this considered creepy? I can't help but to feel extremely attracted to her. We have great chemistry, similar philosophies and hobbies.
Most Helpful Girl
No, it isn't weird that you're attracted to an 18 year old.
My boyfriend and i got together when i was 19 and he was 31. So, in all honesty, I find it completely normal.
So hang out with her. Have fun with her. Enjoy the time you both have with each other, you never know what may change.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's certainly not creepy to be attracted to her. That's totally normal. It's really good that you are asking this question, because it indicates that your head is in the right place. Just take it slowly and let things proceed at her pace. Don't parent her -- those six years since high school are pretty big. If she had plans, don't derail them. She still needs to finish growing up. If she was going to college she needs to go.0