Okay, so I dated this guy 8 months ago and we stil see each other once in a while. We also slept together a couple of times, the sex was amazing, I caught feelings, he didn't want commitment, you get the story. He's a prick, but I fell hard for him.
Now, I am moving on and starting to date other guys as well.
I met guy #2 who is really nice, smart, sweet, and who is totally boyfriend material. It's just that I don't think I am sexually attracted to him and will never be. My stomach churns at the mere thought of it, don't get me wrong, he may not be as good looking as guy #1, but he's okay.
Would this be a problem? Should I take the time to fully get over guy #1 first? I don't even know if I could D:
Most Helpful Guy
I think there are some basic minimum standards that you must like or be compatible with in order to start a successful and lasting relationship. Being physically attracted to them is one. It is one thing to not find them totally hot, but you sound like you are almost repulsed by him, so I would say you better not even start to date him.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you can't enjoy physical intimacy it's going to be depressing for both people. They'll feel unwanted and you'll feel repulsed or sexually deprived. It's not worth it.1