Whenever I encounter a girl, and we start talking, and things start to move forward... I get super anxious and nervous...
I start overthinking, what if she wants to date today, I'm not ready, my cars broken down, what if she wants to hook up, what if I say something stupid...
Which sucks, because I'm lonely and self loath on how no girl likes me... but when I do start talking I get anxiety.
Most Helpful Girl
Why? I don't understand why people have a habit of glorifying attractive people.
I mean, I imagine that you probably idealize her in your head. She is no one special. She is a human-being just like you. Your fear is the only thing that is keeping you back. Remember that.0
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Most Helpful Guy
just be yourself, dont overthink , its doesn't help instead you do weird things which can make the situation bad. Anyways if a girl likes you and sees you nervous , for her it would be kind of cute, i guess as one girl told me :)
Just relax, dont think negative things about yourself, the girl who deserve you will accept your attiudes and nervousnesses :D Good luck1