I always end up being someone's second option or they end up losing interest in me. Heck, one guy even said that I'm not "experienced" enough to be in a relationship with him. This has killed my self-esteem completely because I see so many people in relationships and wish I could be desired in that way. How experienced do I need to become in order to be taken seriously?
Most Helpful Guy
I know exactly how you feel. I've been lied to, lead on, used, and cheated on so many times that I was at the point that I wanted to give up and quit trying, because it seems like nobody will ever care. But I haven't, because I know that one day we'll all find that one person that will always be there for us, someone who we can laugh, learn, and frow with, so hang in there. It'd just be unfair to them.1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly it's not just you. It happens to everyone. Rejection happens to the best of us. Some women cannot take rejection at all and they lower their own value to keep a man around who doesn't really value them. Maybe you're lucky because you let them go2