Had three dates with this guy, who won't make a move on me until he is 100% sure I am the one, he tells me he really likes me and thinks I'm the most amazing girl he has met, but from his past experience of dating 7 girls, whenever he follows his feelings/instincts, it never lasts. He doesn't want to act on his instincts and make a mistake, and lose me in the end - he wants to be 100% sure that this will be a long-term one before he makes a move on me i. e. kiss me.
I really like this guy, but I don't know if he is just stringing me along and just doesn't like me... or if I should wait it out?
Most Helpful Guy
How long have you been dating firstly? Guys are careful when they have been hurt before so he might be taking his time and making sure.
What does your gut instinct tell you? it's normally on the right tracks in my experience. Hopefully he is not stringing you along. Both guys and girls sometimes string each other along while they try and find another person to get with.
I'm surprised he hasn't tried to kiss you though. He could be inexperienced perhaps? I mean, most guys would have tried to get you in bed by now.
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a guy with a current girlfriend is trying to let his conscience instead of his penis decide to fool around with you as well. Love is about taking chances, if he's not interested in taking a chance with you, he's not interested in you.0