I can't keep any guy that I am interested in. The few guys I have been interested in end up ghosting me via text message. Maybe it's because I am a boring texter although I don't think I am. I always try to ask questions but not too many. I try not to send long texts either. I always have fun when I am out with the guy in person, but eventually texting starts hot and heavy and then dissipates. I know I am a fun, smart, sweet and caring person with a lot of depth. I have a good sense of humor as well. This just pertains to the few guys that I am interested in. I am not perfect by any means but I always try to put self-growth and improvement first. I am just sick of trying so hard.
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Guys who can get girls easily don't have a lot of incentive to commit to one girl. It's like, when you can date a lot of different girls, with different looks. clothing styles, interests, lifestyles etc, why stick to one?
It's almost a paradox in dating. Guys who are willing to commit do so because they usually don't have other options. The guys who girls WANT to commit don't, for the very same reason girls want them to - they are attractive, they have options. They didn't become attractive for nothing. They did it so they could get all the pussy they want.2