Then I wait a minute or two ( I need to calm down and figure out a reply)
and again she replys in 5 seconds...
I understand with friends it's cool, or even if you have known her for a while...
But it gets nerve racking when I like her...
Most Helpful Girl
Responding quickly is a problem?
Also, it's texting. Just take your time and if she asks why you take so long, just say your busy or you didn't hear the phone go off0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
If you find texting a girl nerve racking, you really need to work on that. Texting is one of the absolute lowest forms of social communication. If you can't respond to a girl quickly over text, how are you going to talk to her in real life? Or is your entire relationship going to be based on text?
Now I can understand if you're busy, don't reply instantly... No one's forcing you to reply instantly. But waiting because you don't know what to say is really going to be a problem for you. You need to get some confidence up and just say anything that springs to mind, you don't need to get out a whiteboard and draw up mind maps and venn diagrams in order to try and work out what may or may not be the best response. Come on man... She'll like you more if you're not afraid to just say whatever comes to mind.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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