So explain why put a guy through that hell of state like honestly what do u get out of keeping a guy at bay
Most Helpful Girl
Friendzoning someone would mean that that friend asked us out (was clear about his feelings for us) and we rejected him. You can't really consider yourself being friendzoned if you weren't clear about your feelings. Then you're just a friend. Everyone is just a friend at first. If she rejected you and you decided to stay friends, then it's completely your fault if you're still sticking around hoping for something more. Not only that it's your fault, you're also a crappy friend then and a desperate looser. If you can't stand being friendzone then leave.2
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Most Helpful Guy
In most cases, they aren't intentionally putting a guy through hell. They simply see him as a friend, not a lover. We can't control who we are attracted to, men and women alike. If she rejects you bUT likes you as a friend, she isn't a monster any more than you are a monster for rejecting women.
Now consider this. Why would you put *yourself* through hell when you have options? I know a way out of the friendzone which works every time. Ready for it? You walk away. You remain polite, civil, and friendly (and being friendly is different from being a friend), and you realize that in most cases she isn't intentionally trying to hurt you so you hold your head up and walk away without rancor. You limit your contact with her until such time when your heart heals, however long that takes. Then you find another lady who you like who can return your feelings. If you are repeatedly rejected, it might be time to think about how you can make yourself more attractive to women.0