Did you have this talk with you SO? Who brought it up? What was the context?
I am closing the question because I heard everything I had to hear.
I will wait some more before I bring it up and until then I will keep bonding with him. :)
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend and I were hooking up for a while casually. It pretty much got to the point where we were hanging out all of the time. I genuinely enjoyed just having a conversation with her. I could tell that she wanted more. I had a lot thinking to do because I wasn't sure if I wanted to get in relationship considering all the things that I have going on in my life right now.
She was too afraid to initiate the conversation with me as I anticipated and as she later admitted to this. She thought I was going to run away if she suggested any type of commitment.
I took initiative made the first move. I sort of trolled her in the start of the conversation. I was like "blah blah I can't fucking stand girls who talk about their boyfriends all the time. I don't get why people just don't hook up at our age.
I could tell at this point that she was sad AF but she was still nodding her head in agreement to whatever I was saying to save herself from embarrassment. I went 0 to 100 real quick. I told her I really liked her and I wanted her to be mine. Asked her what she thought about that. She was so fucking shocked and happy ahah.
Anyways, I've always been a firm believer to be honest with yourself when it comes to situations like these. If you want something (or someone in this case) then go out and fucking get it.
I don't just catch feelings like nothing. It's a rare occurrence. When I do, I know it means something though. Wasn't about to pass up the opportunity. That girl is all fucking mine. I got her hooked aha.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Yea, it was quite different from your situation though. We've been hooking up, always after a few drinks. He was really into me but wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship. I brought up the what are we conversation after we had sex completely sober for the first time. Been together for almost a year now :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE