Me and my friend mutually like each other and we haven't had the "what are we" talk yet. I am waiting for him to bring it up, because I think i did enough for now (and that means being the first of us to confess and text frequently.) even though I'm not sure he will. As long as we are confortable with what we have, it's ok though.
Did you have this talk with you SO? Who brought it up? What was the context?
I am closing the question because I heard everything I had to hear.
I will wait some more before I bring it up and until then I will keep bonding with him. :)
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My girlfriend and I were hooking up for a while casually. It pretty much got to the point where we were hanging out all of the time. I genuinely enjoyed just having a conversation with her. I could tell that she wanted more. I had a lot thinking to do because I wasn't sure if I wanted to get in relationship considering all the things that I have going on in my life right now.
She was too afraid to initiate the conversation with me as I anticipated and as she later admitted to this. She thought I was going to run away if she suggested any type of commitment.
I took initiative made the first move. I sort of trolled her in the start of the conversation. I was like "blah blah I can't fucking stand girls who talk about their boyfriends all the time. I don't get why people just don't hook up at our age.
I could tell at this point that she was sad AF but she was still nodding her head in agreement to whatever I was saying to save herself from embarrassment. I went 0 to 100 real quick. I told her I really liked her and I wanted her to be mine. Asked her what she thought about that. She was so fucking shocked and happy ahah.
Anyways, I've always been a firm believer to be honest with yourself when it comes to situations like these. If you want something (or someone in this case) then go out and fucking get it.
I don't just catch feelings like nothing. It's a rare occurrence. When I do, I know it means something though. Wasn't about to pass up the opportunity. That girl is all fucking mine. I got her hooked aha.1
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Yea, it was quite different from your situation though. We've been hooking up, always after a few drinks. He was really into me but wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship. I brought up the what are we conversation after we had sex completely sober for the first time. Been together for almost a year now :)1