Most Helpful Guy
"I'm 100% sure he's not looking for that hook up cause he didn't even try anything at the first date"
that's not how it works
if a guy loves you, he'll think a lot about you and won't be able to get you out his mind for very long time
as you state: "he's not messaging as much"
implying he still messages you while being overwhelmed by work
which is actually good sign
just chill and keep going through, maybe even support him by carefully picking your words and the moments you drop them: encouragements and sweet words help, but he needs times to focus as well.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe what he's saying is true. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Try asking him what he's looking for in order to be sure though.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE