So I met this guy back in December on a 10 day group trip abroad. We really hit it off the last few days and sat together on both flights home. We really connected and had a lot of fun even though they were really long flights. We watched movies, he taught me how to draw, we talked about our interests. He goes to college in my state so that’s not a problem. The problem is that he is studying abroad this semester. I really really like him and it is so hard not to see him and talk to him as much. We texted for like 2 weeks straight when we got home from the trip. He doesn’t have international texting so we’ve basically been relying on snapchat and fb messenger to talk. It’s hard though because of the time difference I only get 1 or 2 snaps a day from him. But he told me that he rarely uses snapchat and we have a 15 day streak so that’s good lol. I really like him and I think he may like me, but I am not sure. How do I tell him that I really like him or ask him how he feels about me? Any advice is appreciated.
Most Helpful Guy
Your story reminds me of one of my favorite movies. It was a story about a girl who was trying to find out if she loved this guy or not. I remember relating to it from the guys perspective and it kinda solidified a theory I've had for a long time: If a girl and a guy who get along spend enough time together, a chemistry is gonna start.
What happened to you on that plane is a perfect example. You two were stuck with each other for hours, you spent time getting to know each other. He taught you how to draw, I'm sure you'll never forget that.
I knew this girl when I was younger and we couldn't have been less compatible. But we hung out a lot and for a short time we thought we liked each other a lot. We fooled around and stuff. But it wasn't real chemistry.
There's nothing wrong with talking with this guy, and don't think that just because you meet the guy on a plane or it sounds crazy that your feelings for him aren't valid. They sort of are! haha You just need to think about how valid it is to pursue a relationship with this person. Could you really see it going for a while? But that's what dating is supposed to answer anyway.
Oh, and get what'sapp its a messaging app that a lot of people who travel internationally use. It works through the internet like snapchat or FB chat to send text, audio and video stuff. You can video call or just voice call too. It's a great app, I promise!0
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Most Helpful Girl
well long distance relationship is really a test in any relationship. but if he really likes you he will do anything to reach you out every single day. we are in modern world why not install Skype which is better than snap chat, you can message each other like texting. well i think you should ask him first if he is dating someone or he is interest with someone before you tell him what you feel. at least you will have a clue or you know what to do if he replied yes he is dating a classmate or someone in his school. you just need to have inject that thing when you are having a conversion,0