So this girl that i talk to. I found out that she has a crush on me. And i think she wants to be in a relationship with me. But the thing is i don't think it'll work out. She doesn't know that i am a muslim. It's going to be hard for her to fit in with my family. My parents are not religious but my parents culture is diffrent then hers. And I'm kinda adaptable with both cultures. So i don't know if she can adapt as well. Not saying im going to make her convert or anything no. I'd never do that. It's her life and she follows what she believes in.
How do I explain to her that its not going to work out?
What Girls Said 18
I believe if you like her enough, you need to sit her down and have a really good chat about the whole situation, and let her know all your concerns! Please please please do not pull the whole, cut down on contact and eventually ignore her stunt, itll break her just as it has broken myself and many others. If its meant to be it will be, so I suggest talking to her1
for me honesty is the best policy, just be honest with her. explain everything. there is nothing wrong with being honest. you need to explain to her as soon as possible before her feels for you gets deeper2
Don't lead her on , be kind and honest i always found that is the best thing to do1
You explain to her why you think it won't work out. And do it to where she doesn't feel like she is the problem.1
You say "it's not going to work out"1
Be kind but straight with her. Don't tell her it's because your Muslim or that your family may not approve. Tell her she is amazing but your not interested. You don't want to make her think she can convince you otherwise.1
Be upfront with her about you being a Muslims. Everything you've stated here is sincere and reasonable
I was in a similar situation with a Muslim friend. We got very close. I loved all of his morals and values. That's what initially attracted me to him, but I didn't know he was a Muslim at first. As our friendship started turning into something more. He eventually told be upfront about him being a Muslim, and why it wouldn't work out for us . I was devastated at first because my feelings for him were growing stronger
I started researching into Islam. The more I did, the more I realised it would be selfish of me to expect more of him. His love for God is so deep, deeper than the love he could ever have for any human. I admire him for not going against his faith , and putting God first in his life. We are still good friends though. It was difficult at first, because of my strong romantic feelings for him.
I'm sure if you are honest with this girl she'll understand. If not , then you have to put your friendship with God first. I admire you so much and sincerely wish you the best xx2
If u like her go for it don't let your religion stop u2
"BICH it won't work. Step.. " *waves hand and rolls eyes*1
What Guys Said 5
So because you DON'T KNOW IF SHE CAN ADAPT AKA YOU DON't KNOW SHIT.. It's just not going to workout? Wow how arrogant on your part. Just tell her she isn't capable because somehow you are a mind reader ! LOL1
I am atheist but usually religion is a prob but in my opinion just tell her slow, and not the awkward kinda slow. The thing you tell her before you break it to her should lead to the subject. And also keep ur cool =}1
be kind man she may not understand in the moment but its probably best over all0
what culture is she?0
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