Lazy people are usually looked down upon and thought of as losers even though they usually get paid the same, get the same grades and have the same quality of life as everyone less while putting in much less effort.
Iam kinda lazy not gonna deny it especially when it comes to girls, i find texting all the time, approaching random girls or girls in general and always trying to impress quite exhausting and not my style so i dont do it freuqently (and some never ), sometimes i think to myself that iam at a disadvantage, i dont seek womens approval, i dont try to meet women daily, i dont try to impress every woman i meet, i dont show them how much i care and i dont make an effort to make their life fun and interesting... etc
but at the same time that hasn't really hurt my chances at all, if anything i still get plenty of attention from girls while guys who do all of the above are normally at a disadvantage and work hard to maintain the level of attraction women have for them, and it works for women too just look at how some women dont put in much effort but the guys still try to seduce them and attract them as hard as they can and offer them all sorts of gifts and compliments.
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
- No a certain degree yesVote C
- Depends on your other qualitiesVote D
Most Helpful Girl
Laziness to me is unattractive if it's constant.
You don't have to dote on me every second of the day but if you put forth minimal effort 100% of the time I assume you're the type to give up in a relationship and expect me to keep the fire going.
Absolutely not. Will pass you up instantly.1
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on the girl, I dated a girl who wanted a low maintenance relationship. I was friends with her, she was a dancer, stopped for a while. So then she wanted to date me so I thought it wouldn't be bad because she stopped dancing. I tried to help her get her dream job of being an x ray tech but low and behold, She got scared. She was having issues adapting to regular life, going to bed early, working 9-5, only drinking at happy hour with college grads got to her.
She ran into her old stripper friends and tried to make me look like an asshole for trying to improve her life. Well I failed, they sucked her in, she dumped me, went back to dancing and found the bummiest of bums. She was happy for like 5 months then dumped him. I also confronted her stripper friends and told them the only reason they didn't like me was because they didn't have a decent man trying to improve their lives and that no normal man would want their girl dancing for a living.
They actually admitted I was right and I had proof that she got scared of being an adult and ran back to fantasy land so we all came to a mutual understanding. One of those girls hung up her heels for good, granted she got a young sugar daddy but still. That was years ago and i'll never make that mistake again.
But long story short, some people just want someone to ensure them their shitty life is okay, and having someone try to enrich for the better it is like spending 13 weeks at parris island USMC boot camp.0