Iam kinda lazy not gonna deny it especially when it comes to girls, i find texting all the time, approaching random girls or girls in general and always trying to impress quite exhausting and not my style so i dont do it freuqently (and some never ), sometimes i think to myself that iam at a disadvantage, i dont seek womens approval, i dont try to meet women daily, i dont try to impress every woman i meet, i dont show them how much i care and i dont make an effort to make their life fun and interesting... etc
but at the same time that hasn't really hurt my chances at all, if anything i still get plenty of attention from girls while guys who do all of the above are normally at a disadvantage and work hard to maintain the level of attraction women have for them, and it works for women too just look at how some women dont put in much effort but the guys still try to seduce them and attract them as hard as they can and offer them all sorts of gifts and compliments.
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
- No a certain degree yesVote C
- Depends on your other qualitiesVote D
Most Helpful Girl
Laziness to me is unattractive if it's constant.
You don't have to dote on me every second of the day but if you put forth minimal effort 100% of the time I assume you're the type to give up in a relationship and expect me to keep the fire going.
Absolutely not. Will pass you up instantly.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
"Lazy people are usually looked down upon and thought of as losers even though they usually get paid the same, get the same grades and have the same quality of life as everyone less while putting in much less effort."
... No? Not typically, and usually it's other factors making up for that.
Like for grades, I'm pretty lazy with schoolwork, but I'm really smart so I passed relatively easy back in high school.
But with girls, I'll put in a lot of effort towards that but I'm super unattractive, so yea a lazy guy who is attractive usually gets more attention.
Laziness is rarely a good trait if it ever is, but certainly not in any of those scenarios.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE