He is a gentleman, but Im just not attracted to him at all. Should I just let him go? I don't want to settle, I love my freedom and the sense of independence. Maybe its me, Im just not one for relationship. or maybe Im just not ready to date since my divorce is just recent.
Most Helpful Guy
Having the characteristics of a gentleman doesn't dignify a person who is boyfriend compatible. There are a myriad ways of sparking attraction, but the most difficult is keeping it alive. Right now you seem lost and it's unhealthy to be in a relationship that you're not 100% emotionally committed. You must understand that before you can make someone else happy, you have to make YOURSELF happy. Once you can do that, then you're ready to share your life and let another person be a part of yours. Its your own happy that is the foundation of making others happy and sharing your love with another person.1
Most Helpful Girl
Don't waste his time, be honest, and try to find yourself. Find out what you love, try to do everything what makes you happy, maybe you can sing, draw, or just read, join to the library and take your time, because, you aren't ready yet for a new relationship.1