I'm not asking whether you agree in the alpha/beta dichotomy or if it's right or wrong. I'm just wondering if this is seen as being more alpha for a female. My friends have told me I'm too alpha in the dating world because I don't make men work and I take the man role because I don't mind approaching guys, asking them out and messaging or calling them first or whenever I want, and I gladly pursue them. I also try to set up plans too and I don't let the dude take the lead. It's just who I am. I like being in control and knowing what's going on and having full honesty. If I'm into a guy, I will say so and show so. I message guys multiple times if I have something to say and I will be the first to call after a first date. It's just who I am. Am I more alpha? I don't boss guys around at all, by any means. I just like steering relationships in a certain direction that I envision.
- Yes, that is more "alpha"Vote A
- No, that is not "alpha"Vote B