ok ladies, I am 36, have everything going for me, but I am dating again, and trying to talk to women, and when we get to the conversation about what we are looking for in a relationship, and when I explain to them about what I am looking for, I get comments like, "your just another player aren't you?" or " I have heard those bulls**t lines before!" how do i get past the jaded defense mechanism I am encountering?
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Just be straight up and if she doesn't like what you have to say then on to the next. A woman would much appreciate honesty than to find out your real intentions later. Not all women are like that, there isn't much you can do but move on.0