Okay, as of now I have a date for next Tuesday, Valentines Day. She's a waitress at a local restaurant/bar and I've seen her there several times before.
Here's how this all started:
So yesterday my family and I went out to lunch at this restaurant with my dad's friend. We ate and then my brothers and I went home while my parents and dad's friend stayed back for a few beers. Later on in the evening I get a text from my dad saying to come back to the restaurant because "there is a female here that wants to meet you" lmao. Turns out, it's this waitress there and she is a straight dime, like holy sh*t! Out of my league ahaha. I guess she had remembered seeing me there before and I guess she thought I was attractive enough to want to do this or whatever. I am astounded dudes, I still don't believe it. This was so random and came out of nowhere. I guess my dad's friend was really talking me up after I left, I have no idea wtf happened. He set this up, props to him. When I returned, we properly introduced ourselves and she was the one coming up with the plans for the date kinda. And we're planning on me picking her up and going to hot yoga next Tuesday, then dinner, then maybe a movie I don't know. I'm going to text her to see if she's still serious about it, she really seemed into it. The thing is guys, I've never even been on a date... shite😂. I'm so nervous because I'm socially awkward. I think I'll seen boring because I'll be nervous. And I'm worried about awkward silences haha.
This is the kind of stuff this site was originally made for guys, come on help me out lmao
What can I do to not be nervous? How do I not seem boring even though I'm nervous?
Most Helpful Girl
Just be yourself and keep the conversation going by asking her questions and getting to know her. First dates are always a bit awkward in the beginning unless you really know the person. Don't say anything bad about yourself though is the only tip I'd give you, just be confident. You got this.3
Most Helpful Guy
Be yourself and don't stress. Treat her like a dudemanbro but with respect. Things will only be awkward if you tell yourself it'll be awkward.2