So i seem to face these issues when it comes to dating:
- I rarely meet anyone im interested in (maybe 1-3 times a year), if i do find someone im interested either: 1. He is taken, 2. I haven't actually talked to him that much, and if we do meet we dont really talk and dont really have a reason for it either. we recongnize eachother and might say hi when we see eacother, but we dont have any mutual friends or anything like that 3. we end up going on a date, but it ends aftert the first or second date.
- I dont have the conficene to approach the guys i do find interesting
- The guys who are interested, are guys im not very interested in at all
I dont really know if i should just give up dating, or not.. maybe im just not ment to date? anyone lese experience this and can give me some advice?
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Maybe you're like me and simply just hate dating in general. I've been single for a long time, not for this reason alone, but it's a BIG one. I hate it. Nothing fun or enjoyable about it to me. So I don't even approach or ask women out. Exactly the same for me, women I like are always taken, and women that like me I have no interest in. But, I'm happy being single, even prefer it.
But, maybe for you, you just have to keep trying. I'd suggest working on your confidence. More and more I believe women NEED to approach guys now. Especially ones THEY are interested in. Not wait for guys to do it.2