I've been told that its a turn off to talk about the deep stuff on a first date? like their childhood, passions, etc..
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Going on dates suck. However, if going on a date, which most consider serious, small talk should be off limits. Going on a date is like going on a interview, something both guys and girls need to be prepared for. Small talking on a date, is like saying, he or she is not really important and feel more like just a acquaintance. Now if not on a date, thats different, since neither was prepared and probably just don't know what to say and may not want the other to lose interest, so they stay talkative, rather than risk losing the other person, due to lack of being talkative. Of course, it can go either way in the small talk scenario without being on a date.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE