I suck at dating lol I don't like boring small talk on dates.. I want to get to know somebody, what makes them tick.
I've been told that its a turn off to talk about the deep stuff on a first date? like their childhood, passions, etc..
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To some extent you have to mirror the conversation of the other person but you can't be afraid of giving a fuller deeper impression of yourself if you are that sort of person. Personally I love a girl that can express herself and show a deeper emotional side too. Keeping everything on the surface almost feels like a pretence but launching into solo's about deep and meaningful emotions and waffling on are massive turn offs. Best adobe is to keep things light flirty and fun ( if you like the person ) and hint at a deeper emotional intellect :)0