I just feel miserable. I love him, but im becoming so drained. My boyfriend has depression and ocd and a bunch of other stuff and its so draining to be with him. I feel like such an asshole for thinking like this too, because he can't help it. I just want our relationship like it was two months ago but he says he loves me but can't feel anything properly and he apologized for not being able to feel or do anything romantic. I dont know what to do. Whats the point in our relationship and dating? He only did stuff with me for the past month because he thought itd make me happy, but it doesn't because its all one-sided. Am i supposed to wait for him to get on the medication for depression and expect things to be all happy again like it was? there's no guarantee things will be the same and after all this i dont even expect things to be. He said "please dont leave me" what do i do? Am i just a bitch? Im too young to deal with all this in a relationship, its ridiculous how far over my head i am.
Most Helpful Guy
when you argue more than laugh that is when you call me for a ladder to get you out of the hole you dug.1
Most Helpful Girl
I suffer from depression, anxiety and bipolar. And the guy may just be moody. He sounds like he needs to be on his meds before he starts dating or maybe he doesn't need to date at all until he has his emotions and feelings straightened out. Its not fair of him to keep you in a relationship that is unhealthy and you are the one doing everything to keep the relationship going. I feel that maybe you should cut ties with him, you can remain friends but the guy is not ready to be in a serious relationship with him. You are draining yourself and deserve to be treated by someone who is willing to give you their all and everything.0