I've been wondering if I'm being too picky lately. So I'm just curious as to what people think based on my general list of "Deal breakers". To me, they seem pretty reasonable (they're mostly things that are either unattractive to me, or things that would majorly clash with my life). But I've been told I'm picky before. I really don't want to come across as shallow or rude, I don't consider myself shallow by any means, but this is just me being honest. So here's my list, let me know if you think this list makes me picky. Opinions welcome!
-Taller than me (I'm 5'5'' - So Anyone at least a couple inches taller is good to go for me, I don't need 6 ft or anything)
-Non-smoker (Very important - huge deal breaker)
-In Shape/Takes care of himself (I'm not saying hugely buff or a 6 pack here - I just want someone that generally is in Shape and looks like they put even a bit of effort into taking care of themselves, because I work hard to make that effort on my end)
-Hair on their head, but little to no beard/moustache (not that their not good looking or anything - just a personal preference)
-Generally liberal/tolerant views (no anti-gay, racist, misogyny, pro-life, etc)
-Not a player or "Fuckboy", actually looking for a monogamous relationship
-Will not make me partake in outdoorsy or sports-like activities (just won't happen, I'm not that girl)
-Likes animals (For their sake, mostly. I have 2 dogs, a cat and a bird - if they don't like animals they'd probably suffer at my place)
-Get along well, easy to talk together
Thanks for the help everyone! I just want some third party opinions on this to get an outside view on this.
Most Helpful Guy
Well you like what you like. There is no such thing as too picky. No one should settle for less than they want, that just leads to drama when they are replaced by a better match (and in the meantime getting on each other's nerves). I'm picky as well, if that means never getting laid again so be it, thankfully fap material is easy to find these days. Probably less picky than you though, I don't care if they are liberal or not (preferably conservative and anti-gay, but don't really care what they believe as long as they don't try to convert me, best to simply avoid topics like politics and religion, why some games ban such topics in their chat) or things like what their day job is. Not a big fan of cancer though so smokers I'd rather avoid.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are not picky these are common things we look for in a guy1